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Ruth Z. Deming

Friday, September 16, 2011

Poem of the Week: I Pick Your Trash, John Leonard, Now That You're Gone'

Poems are courtesy of poets local to the Upper Moreland area.

Each week, Upper Moreland-Willow Grove Patch is happy to present poems selected by the members of the Willow Grove Coffee Shop Writers Group, as well as poems from the residents of the Upper Moreland area. This week's poem:   I Pick Your Trash, John Leonard, Now That You're Gone By Ruth Z. Deming  At first they put out the commode seat up to let it sink in.   It sat on the grass a week, kids passed by what would they know of your rosebushes out front, or the hospice nurse green Dodge parked in the drive or about you, John Leonard, ninety-five and shuffling to your garden out back  in house slippers and morphine.   On garbage night the invisble hand brought out some broken rakes and tumbledown shelves, your wife’s perfume bottles lying in a…

linda barrett

11:10 pm on Friday, September 16, 2011

Linda Barrett writes: Ruthie, I admire your style so much, that I'd like to copy it for myself!   more ›

Monday, August 22, 2011

15 Years of Back Pain Fixed by Modern Micro-surgery

Active writer for Patch, who once thought her suffering was forever, finds instant relief from the debilitating pain of sciatica.

It had been two years and I had tried everything. Anti-inflammatory medication, physical therapy, spinal epidurals. Nothing helped. I would watch people walking down the street, swinging their arms, and be amazed that they weren’t in excruciating pain like I was. Would I ever walk again? I found the answer the first week in April. I was home recovering from the gift of life – a kidney transplant from my daughter Sarah. Grace was a visiting nurse sent out to help me post-op, tutoring me on how best to take my antirejection medication.  “My worst problem,” I told Grace, was not the healing of my kidney. It was my “sciatica agony,” (pronounced 'sigh-atika') a throbbing, burning, sizzling pain that ran like a hot river down my left leg. Grace …

Ruth Z. Deming

10:33 am on Thursday, September 15, 2011

thanks for the comment, dee dee. everyone has a different reaction to the surgery, there's no predicting. i did research and believe my surgeon is one of the most skillful in the area. am wondering if the nausea was from your pain pills or just the general trauma of surgery? surgery is always traumatic to the body. it's unnatural. be patient. my surgeon, dr lee, told me that i'd have vestigial …   more ›

Monday, July 18, 2011

Local Writers Group Never at a Loss to Share a Good Word

The Coffee Shop Writers Group meets monthly at Weinrich's Bakery in Willow Grove to help emerging authors with honest, but positive feedback.

For an author, constructive criticism could mean the life or death of a yet-to-be-published work. The members of the Coffee Shop Writers Group are all for giving such critiques. “I’m glad to be here because I get such great feedback,” Linda Barrett, a writers group member, said. The group, which was founded in 2003, meets monthly in the coffee shop of Weinrich’s Bakery, located in Willow Grove. Weinrich’s Bakery, a family-owned business, has given the writers group several opportunities, providing members with a venue where they can recite their work to the public, as well as publishing the group’s first collection of poems, titled “Icing on the Cake.” “I think it’s wonderful,” Stella Weinrich, Weinrich’s Bakery manager, said. “It’s nice …

Carly Brown

7:57 pm on Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Wow, what a Great job!!!! Thank you for your kind words. It makes me feel even more proud of being involved in the Coffee Shop Writing Group.   more ›

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Mom Talk: TV Time

It's going to happen: Your kids will watch TV, play video games or play on the computer at some point today—so should you monitor or restrict screen time?

This week's Mom Talk is brought to you by Upper Moreland-Willow Grove Patch Moms' Council members and Patch contributors Heather Greenleaf and Ruth Z. Deming. --- TV was once a rare commodity to be found in the American household. In 1959, a total of 5,749,000 televisions were sold in the U.S., bringing the cumulative total from sales dating back to 1939 to 67,145,000 units, according to tvhistory.tv. According to a 2009 Nielsen’s Television Audience Report, there are 54 percent of homes in the U.S. that have three televisions or more—making the number of homes with TVs across the country 114.5 million. And, of course, TVs aren’t just tethered to the home—they’ve become mobile. TVs can be found on the back of car seats, on buses, at …

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Mom Talk: Relationship with the In-Laws

Members of the Moms Council give their two cents on dealing with in-laws.

It’s that time of week once again for a little Mom Talk. Patch takes the chance to inform our readers about something new: moms, dads, grandparents and family friends alike. This week's Mom Talk is brought to you by Upper Moreland-Willow Grove Patch Moms' Council members and Patch contributors Heather Greenleaf and Ruth Z. Deming. --- Although there is a generational gap between Deming, a mother and grandmother, and Greenleaf, who is a mother of two young children, they both have the same perspective on relationships with the in-laws. They say, regardless if the subject is breast feeding, what solid foods should a toddler eat or what pediatrician a child should see, the decision should ultimately be left to the mother and father. "I have …

Monday, April 11, 2011

Part II: My New Bouncing Baby Kidney

A gift of love gives writer a whole new life after her daughter donates her kidney.

On Friday morning, April 1, a light snow was falling when we drove down Broad Street to Einstein Medical Center for my kidney transplant. Taking the drug lithium for bipolar disorder had ruined both my kidneys. I was reunited with my daughter Sarah, who in several hours would cede her left kidney to me in the operating room. We hugged and were in great spirits. Her husband, Ethan, was with her, as was my boyfriend, Scott, and my son, Dan. Dressed in a blue hospital gown that opened at the back, I slid into a gurney and removed my contact lenses. Everything was a big fat blur of colors and moving shapes. A regular abstract painting. And I was the painting’s subject. The Gross Clinic by Thomas Eakins. Tubes were put into my left hand and …

Carly Brown

12:40 am on Tuesday, April 12, 2011

You will have to figure out what you can eat and when you will need to be eating. Blook sugar is a very intersting situation. Some people with no sugar problems are not even aware what their sugar numbers are, and then those of us that have problems should not even go one day without checking their sugars. No hospital has good foods, good for you taking your own. Keep us in the loop, Ruth. I am …   more ›

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Mom Talk: Difficult Conversations

This week's topic: dealing with difficult conversations with your children.

It’s that time of week once again for a little Mom Talk. Patch takes the chance to inform our readers about something new: moms, dads, grandparents and family friends alike. This week's Mom Talk is brought to you by Upper Moreland-Willow Grove Patch Moms' Council members and Patch contributors Heather Greenleaf and Ruth Z. Deming. --- Deming, who is a mother of adult children and a grandmother, brought up the topic of how parents should deal with difficult conversations, such as a death of a loved one. "It's really important to explain things in an age-appropriate way," Deming said. Greenleaf, who has two young children, responded by sharing a story of when she witnessed a father helping his daughter cope with the death of her mother. …

Melissa Treacy

9:05 pm on Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Thanks, moms for the tips. My kids recently lost their grandmother (my mother-in-law), and two main things got them through it. I was very grateful they had some religion, since my son (then 4) called her an "angel" and was glad to know she was in heaven. It seemed to them she just "moved" to a new place. Ironically, the second thing was that my parents had lost a dog the year before, and they …   more ›

Monday, April 4, 2011

Art Treasures Adorn Walls of Upper Moreland Public Library

Seek and you shall find museum-quality art the moment you step inside.

The Upper Moreland Public Library combines knowledge and imagination with its stunning original art collection. Elaine Klawans of the Friends of the Library reawakened interest in the artwork at a recent township commissioner’s meeting, just in time for the upcoming Willow Grove Tri-Centennial Celebration, which begins in April.   Elaine Klawans noted that the works on the library's walls are “museum-quality original works of art.”   The pieces were painted by renowned artists whose works appear in museums and in private collections alike.   Who knew? She and her husband Alan assembled the library’s art collection. Back in the late 1990s, the library board, of which she was a member, asked Alan Klawans’ for his help to create the crown …

hartmanr1

11:05 pm on Monday, April 4, 2011

I always enjoy stopping by the U M Library to browse, read and check out items. The place is visually appealing and the staff makes it very "hamish" All the best > RICH HARTMAN   more ›

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Part I: April First, I Get a New Kidney, No Foolin'

The long-term use of lithium for bipolar disorder caused irreversible kidney damage to a Patch contributor.

Today, my new T-shirt arrived in the mail. “Ask me why I have three kidneys,” it reads. I ordered it online and plan to wear it when I return home from my Einstein Hospital stay after I receive a new kidney later this week from my daughter Sarah. They leave the old kidneys in. I lost vital kidney function after taking the medication lithium for nearly 17 years for manic depression, also known as bipolar disorder. It kept my moods stable and allowed me to live a vibrant, productive life. When I first went on lithium at age 38, I was aware of this major risk. But every drug carries risks, even aspirin. I did well on the drug—raising my two children as a single parent, working as a writer and copy editor for the Doylestown-based Intelligencer…

Ruth Z. Deming

8:18 am on Wednesday, April 6, 2011

thanks for your lovely note, mrs dungan. you certainly have a wonderful son. he also shared that you run a support group yourself and you're right that this would be of great help to me. my family and friends have been super, esp. by providing me with delicious healthy foods. altho i'm doing quite well it'll still be a while until i feel like my old self but that time is certainly approaching.   more ›

Monday, March 21, 2011

Business Profile: Flowers are a Family Affair at Kremp Florist

The third generation of florists readies for spring on Davisville Road in Willow Grove.

On a sunny Saturday in late March, Kremp Florist is gearing up for spring, as it has since it first began selling flowers in 1958. Monica Salvatore, a young employee who’s worked there for nine years, uses her artistic expertise to fashion a bouquet for new customer, Marcy Juliani, of Philadelphia. Juliani’s granddaughter, Sarah, is in a school play, and flowers make the perfect gift, she said. For years, Juliani had heard about Kremp’s, and finally, she visited the florist. “They have such a good name,” she said. For three generations, the Kremp family has remained a top competitor, constantly growing its business and expanding into the Internet age. Kremp's was named “National Retail Florist of the Year” in 2006. Its aromatic showroom …

Ruth Z. Deming

2:57 pm on Monday, May 9, 2011

my above comment, allen, is my final comment.   more ›

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